Causes you grief…..CHANGE IT! At least open your mind to other possibilities that may make you feel better! Helllloooooo! Why would you want to hang onto beliefs that cause you grief?! I don’t get it!
What am I talking about? I’ll tell you. There are family members I have, that would rather hang on to their beliefs about passing on that cause them a lot of pain and grief. SO much so that they can’t even share in anything that may be joyful and funny regarding Andrew. Why would you not want to trade pain for peace?? I don’t get it!
So it got me to thinking that if your beliefs cause you that much grief then why would you not want to change them especially when you have people close to you that are finding peace in a traumatic situation! Unless you are hooked on feeling bad!
It’s one thing if that’s all you know and have no other information available to you. But when you have information available to you and you turn the other way, then I have no sympathy for people who sit in their grief! Especially people who know us and know we are willing to share our philosophies that has brought us peace in this tragic situation of losing our son’s physical presence. IT’S A CHOICE to stay in grief!
So if you have a belief that is causing you grief, then it’s time to look into a new belief! Beliefs should make you feel good! That’s why I have a problem with organized religion, most of the time their beliefs make you feel bad, guilty, or not good enough, especially in regards to crossing over. What organized religion tells you that you can communicate with your DLO? Most believe that it is the devil’s work! ROFLMAO with that one! Don’t even get me going about the whole devil, satan BS religion uses to control people!That’s for another blog. What religion tells you that you can continue your relationship with your DLO, just on another level? That your DLO is truly a live and well & with you? None that I know of! Religion teaches separation when a loved one crosses and that is not the case! It’s FAR from the truth! But then again, what does religion and truth have in common? Not much!
SO why keep a belief that is painful? Unless of course you like being miserable! Either way it’s your choice!
IT’S ALL GOOD!