I raised a Prince Charming without a doubt! Andrew was a true gentleman in every sense of the word.
We were watching Super Nanny while on the road to no where, the treadmill, at Elatiaâ€™s gym at her apt complex on Thursday. The husband on the show was such a putz! He was all about work, wasnâ€™t into his 3 kids and ignored his wife. Not even close to being a REAL man!
It got me thinking about Andrew. Granted, everything makes me think about Andrew. But this did because I made a conscious decision to raise Andrew NOT to be a typical guy. He did his own laundry, he knew how to clean, he knew how to cook, he was always respectful to women & very polite. He opened the car door for me and for any other woman he was in a car with. He would open the door for me where ever we went. A real gentleman in deed!
As I was remembering all this I felt so jipped! I raised this amazing young man that would put most â€˜menâ€™ to shame! Andrew was more of a man then most so called men Iâ€™ve known! I knew I had raised Andrew to be the most incredible boyfriend, husband and father! And now he wonâ€™t be any of those things. I was so looking forward to watching him become all of these things. SO yea, I feel really jipped! I was so happy to know I didnâ€™t raise a typical â€œmamaâ€™s boy!â€ While Andrew loves his Pretty Mama, he was his own man. And real men love their motherâ€™s!
My mother told me when Andrew was 3 yrs. old that I would be one of those clingy mothers that wouldnâ€™t be able to let go of their son. I said to her â€œNo I wonâ€™t! Why would you say that??â€ Then I tuned to Andrew and said â€œWho loves you the most?? No one will ever love you more than mommy does! Right?â€ LOL
It drives me crazy when I see motherâ€™s do everything for their sonâ€™s! Of course they will find the women who feel they are only worth something if they are waiting on their man. Arrrrrggggg!!!!! But thatâ€™s a whole other rant!
SO the world is down one Prince Charming & REAL man but he is and always will be my Prince!
ITâ€™S ALL GOOD!