I am an empty nester now!!! That is soooooooo NOT cool or fair! *serious foot stomping, tantrum going now!* It’s one thing when you see it coming, you know like college applications n stuff, but this????? NOT ACCEPTABLE!
I wasn’t going to ever be an empty nester according to Andrew. He had no plans on leaving home! Being on another dimension at home doesn’t count to the Mama gene! He figured if his sister could stay home until she was 25 he had at least that long but he was going for longer! SO I had no concerns of ever being an empty nester! EVER! This SUCKS!
Andrew got a bit upset with me my mother told me after one of her visits in the hospital. Muck and I were looking at a matching computer desk for his kick ass $16,000 computer. It matched his bed exactly. I made the mistake of telling him that he would have some furniture when he eventually gets his own place. I only said that so I wouldn’t be one of those clingy mothers that won’t let go of their sons. I wanted to make sure he knew he would always have options.
Yea, he was not appreciating that at all! He told my mother “Why would she say that? I’m not ever leaving!”He was upset with me! Muck and I discussed it and I set him straight. I told him I didn’t want him to leave either. We’ll do the whole Irish thing of him staying at home till he got married! And even then we’ll discuss it! :-D
I was thrown spontaneously into empty nesterhood! Kinda like being thrown suddenly into menopause after a hysterectomy or something!
I just miss him being here so much! I was sitting here watching Psych on the USA network thinking how much I really don’t want to be here anymore. Why bother? What’s the point? No one is returning my e-mails, not even for volunteer work! Wondering if I can google exactly what Keith Ledger took. :-D *pause for a drama queen moment* ……………………………*ennnnnd scene* Moving on.
Then I notice on the show they are on a Spanish soap opera and the Inspector makes an arrest on camera and starts to speak what little Spanish he remembers from high school. A bit like myself. Like, I can say my name Consuelo, ask for water, and say “let’s party in the library.” What does the inspector say after his name?? Something Andrew use to say all of the time out of the blue for no reason, it was totally random every time he said it…… “I like cheese!” Freaked my ass out!
I was ROFLMAO! I couldn’t believe it! Even Denise texted me about it, she saw it too! He really knows how to pull me out of a funk. Andrew not the Inspector. Maybe that’s why the moods don’t last too long, he’s always giving me some unmistakable sign right when I need it. He’s a good Avatar!
IT’S ALL GOOD!