8th Anniversary Of Our Final Goodbye

Share When you lose a child, you not only have the day that they passed to get through, you then have the day of their service, or as we called it, the FUNeral service to get through year after year.  And for us, that was our final goodbye to Andrew’s physical presence, the last time I would ever see my beautiful boy physically again this lifetime. Grief, the gift that just keeps on effin giving! Even 8 years later. I usually have more pictures of every International It’s All Good Day! celebration, but this year I didn’t get any and … Continue reading


ShareFINALLY! We are reading TOGETHER from the Emerald Isle! After 9 months apart, Martin and I are together! Catch us while you can at this limited time special rate! Please feel free to SHARE! by clicking the Facebook or Twitter icon on the left or right, and thank you. To celebrate that Martin is done with treatment, out of hospital, and feeling better, AND that we are together again finally, we are reading together at a VERY special rate! Normal rates are $120 for 1 hour, $65 for 30 minutes, $50 for 20 minutes, which is still a deal for … Continue reading

On the Issue of Cancer


ShareHere I sit, doing busy things, some paying off, and some I wish I hadn’t started, healing from cancer. I am isolated from some of the people I love and admire most in my life. Yes I am dealing with f**king cancer again. The first time it wasn’t me personally, but my son, Andrew, and it took his life at 16 back in October 2007. Then I realize that it is OK to be angry and to let it get you down periodically, because honesty with self is all part of that great healing process that everybody talks about, and … Continue reading

My Sweet Lady (PrettyMama)

Share It was a few days after Andrew’s birthday in May when I had been wondering what direction I should put my energy and goals. I was beginning to wonder if I would ever work with Andrew/PureHeart and Martin again. I mean we haven’t done an event since October 2014. Martin is going to be gone until at least October of this year, possibly longer with his cancer treatment in N Ireland. As time goes on, this bigger picture I thought I was seeing after Andrew left keeps getting smaller and smaller with every Muggle job I have to take to … Continue reading

Conversation about the Nature of God Part I


Share Conversation on the Nature of God Players: Friend 1: A born again Christian, and a seeker Friend 2: A scientifically minded realist, and a Spiritualist Friend 3: A Catholic – mostly non-practising, but a very strong woman True Seeker: A student, and contributor to our PureHeart work. Me: A Spiritualist teacher, and Seeker This is the conversation I experienced with some friends of mine on Facebook regarding one of the statements allegedly made by the current pontiff, Pope Francis. I was posting my thoughts as to its validity. My friend is a practising modern born again Christian, and it … Continue reading



Share* Grabs mic and gets on soap-box – “Is this thing on?” *   People have said that I am a Diva. Well if Diva means still standing after nearly losing your 25 year old daughter after emergency surgery on a rare ovarian tumor that they wanted to treat as an aggressive form of ovarian cancer. Then going right into a Leukemia diagnosis with your 16 year old son, then losing him 4 months later. Then suddenly being thrown into menopause at 47 year old so you don’t have a major physical meltdown from all the trauma in the past year. Then … Continue reading

The Janitor

EVERY job is important!

ShareThis story is one of the MANY reasons I just adore and love my son’s attitude! He just got shit! While at All Children’s hospital during the summer of 2007, when my son was first diagnosed with leukemia, this 16yo boy thanked the janitor for cleaning his room after Andrew was ripped from his summer fun to be in the PICU on dialysis and chemo and other aggressive leukemia treatment like needles stuck in his spine etc. The janitor left my son’s room astonished saying, “That boy just thanked me! He really thanked me!” My son Andrew asked me why … Continue reading

Angels Dancing on the Head of a Pin


ShareI was going through my Facebook history when I came across this little gem So as I was showering today, the question “How many angels can dance on the top of pin?” popped into my head, and so did the answer: “The size of the head of the pin increases exponentially to accommodate the number of angels who are drawn together with intent and desire to dance on the head of said pin. They do not offer any resistance, (judgement) about either the size of the pin nor the number of participants.” Whoa! Well Duh! Doesn’t everybody know that?? *grin* … Continue reading



ShareREADING SPECIAL CONTINUES! To celebrate that Martin is done with treatment, out of hospital, and feeling better, we are reading together at a VERY special rate! Normal rates are $120-1hr, $65-30 mins, $50-20mins, which is still a deal for BOTH of us! For a limited time, we are doing readings TOGETHER for $2 a min, 20 min minimum. Now that’s a real steal of a deal! Our rates will be going up after Oct 31st! So take advantage of this special while it lasts! So whether you want a mediumship, relationship, career, life path, connect with your Angels and Guides reading, … Continue reading

Count Down Begins to the 8th Annual Int’l It’s All Good Day Celebration


ShareThirty four years ago was one of the most magical days in my life watching, helping bring the girl I always dreamed about into my life! And 8 yrs ago was the 2nd most traumatic day in my life! As we were getting ready to meet Elatia at the beach for her 26th bday, I was on cake duty, but first we had to make, what we thought was a quick trip to the walk in clinic for antibiotics for Andrew who had a sore throat & fever. Then we found out we had to go the ER b/c the … Continue reading